Whatever you have in your life right now, is there because you have, consciously or unconsciously, intended for it to be exactly that way.
If it's not what you consciously want, the trick is to uncover the unconscious intentions that have been driving you, and change those.
The power of your will has created your life up to this point. Are you willing to start using your willpower to create what you actually want?
There's always something in you creating your circumstances.
Can you spot it?