I was born dead. Strangled in my own umbilical cord. In other words, my life started with a near-death experience. That shaped me for life. It gave me a strong connection to the divine. It also caused a lot of pain. The "other side" can be so appealing compared to this.
That's why I strive to bring the light and love of the "other side" into the physical world we humans must interact with, to make the experience just a little sweeter.
I do that through information, coaching, products, and services.
Raising the Maturity Level
My mission is to raise the maturity level of people all over the world—mentally, emotionally, physically, and spiritually.
How? By raising my own, and sharing what I learn to guide others on how to do the same.
Mental maturity is about how we relate to our thoughts. Are you aware of your thoughts? Do you practice thinking on a regular basis? Are you aware of your beliefs? Do you question your thoughts and beliefs? In order to grow, you have to be questioning and changing your beliefs all the time. In order to get good at thinking, you have to practice. It’s hard. Most people don’t realize how hard it is because they’ve never actually done it.
Emotional maturity is about how we relate to our emotions. Humans are emotional beings. Everything we do, we do to either avoid or feel certain emotions. Most people alternate between suppressing their emotions and vomiting them out. Neither is healthy. A healthy relationship with your emotions is when you’re able to feel any feeling that arises and let them flow through your body with no resistance. We all have a lot of old emotions that we buried because they were too much for us at the time. They need to get released. When you get triggered by a situation, it’s always a pointer to one of those situations. We need to learn to use triggers to heal, not blame.
Physical maturity is about taking care of your body and your health. At 47, I’m feeling younger and healthier than I ever have in my life. At some point I’m sure some things are going to deteriorate, but we’ve bought into a myth that as you get older you get weaker and you have more and more pain. Bullshit. Or at least it comes way later than we think. We have to train our bodies, and we have to eat healthy. Your body needs to be lean and strong and flexible and healthy. There’s just no excuse for not taking care of your body. We all have one. We know what it takes. And your body is what makes life worth living. Many people try to outsource responsibility for their body to their doctor. It doesn’t work that way. It’s your body. It’s your responsibility.
Spiritual maturity is about meaning, purpose, and being connected to something bigger in your life. I believe we’re all here for a reason. We chose to incarnate on this planet at this time in order to fulfill a specific mission. It’s your job to find out what that is, and then give your all. Even if you don’t buy into that, we humans need a sense of meaning and purpose to thrive. So go find yours. And feeling a sense of belonging and connectedness with other people is critical for our well-being.